Novie's right; we each independently called the park that day, and both found out that no one had requested permission to spread ashes. Anyway, in my opinion if we couldn't figure it all out a year ago, I can't imagine we can figure it out now.
For what it's worth, I did go to junior high and high school with F.O.X., wockenfuss, and Woods many years ago - back before the internet, when we used our real names. We didn't look like young girls, but we did look [i:9988083cac]at[/i:9988083cac] young girls. :wink: