by ROBERTVOZZA » Wed Dec 07, 2005 1:52 am
My pleasure, Qk...AND Congratulations!!! Being a brother or sister, aunt or uncle or a friend of people with kids(Of any age) isn't anything like having children of your own.
I really used to think I knew or understood what it was like conceptually or vicariously. But I wasn't even close. It is the most exhausting, demanding, challenging, frightening, life altering, character and stamina building, rewarding, heart opening, exciting, uplifting life experience there is. Once you do it - you see everything with an entirely new set of eyes.
It is almost like being reborn yourself. You also become a member of an exclusive club - that people who do not have children never really understand until they do it themselves. All of a sudden, things that would bother you prior just seem so trite and miniscule by comparison.
You begin to recognize other people's struggles as well and you gain a compassion unlike the one that existed before children. You begin to notice things about other children, like if they might cough, or choke and you jump up to make sure someone elses child is ok somewhere in public - maybe even out of the country.
I can only speak for myself, but the 1st time I ever heard the word, "Daddy", I somehow realized who I was and to this day it is still my favorite word. The tug you feel when you are away from them is unlike any other pang you may have ever felt before. Sure, it is a relief to get away from all the noise and get some real sleep once in awhile, but you can't wait to get back to them and you feel excitement you hadn't felt perhaps since you were a child and your parents were away.
Anyway, this has become lengthy(What else is new.) And i just wanted to welcome you to the club and wish for your wife's term and delivery to be a healthy one and may God bless your child and your family. :D :wink: