by RICHARDMILTER » Tue Apr 07, 2009 9:33 am
Some of you may be angry that I have droped out(some may be happy, my spot should be easy to fill). I thought you should know the reason/reasons. I have been nothing but polite to ninersphan, thanking him in almost every post, and sticking up for him when there was the draft lotto controversy.
Skip back to last night when I posted a question to ninersphan about our 3 free agents. He responded back to me (in a PM) with such utter rudeness ,and a condescending tone that if we had been in the same room I doubt he would have said what he wrote. He acted like I am stupid(after all my thank yous) and said the question had been answered three times already. Well in fact it had not been answered 3 times! He also claimed that his original post did NOT say we must keep our 3 free agents and not drop them, or trade them. Czar had answered my question but since he is not commissioner I wanted to be sure since rules were changing.
I will not be spoken to like I am stupid, especially after thanking him so many times, and even sticking up for him(see any earlier posts by me)when we had the lottery snafu. It is not worth it to me to be talked to like I am a moron. Here is his original post:
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Here's the small twist, you can only spend a total of 6mil on all 3 free agents. How you do that is up to you, you can spend 5mil on 1 player and .50 on the other 2, but no matter how you do it, the combined salaries must total 6 mil between all 3 players. Those 3 players MUST remain on your team the entire season and can not be traded. [/quote:8796c49c80]
I would post the PM he sent me but it was so outrageous and rude that I deleted it immediately,..in anger.
Call me old fashion, or just call me polite, but I speak to people the way I expect to be spoken to(whether they are standing right next to me or hundreds of miles away), and ninersphan all but called me stupid. That is not going to happen by some faceless person who does not know me,.... from hundreds of miles away. Therefore he must be taught a lesson on how to communicate with people. Where I come from,... and have been, if someone pops off like he did in the PM, they are looking at a fat lip or worse. Violence is never the 1st or best answer, and I try to avoid such matters at all costs, but if he does not learn the easy way(like this) someone will end up teaching him the hard way.
You treat others the way you want to be treated. And it was not just his rudeness and ignorance but also the fact that; he was wrong about what he was saying. He has contradicted himself several times. That is what happened, and I am sticking to my principles. And as crazy as You may think this sounds, part of the reason is,.. for his own good. He needs to learn how to communicate with people in a polite and courteous manner, even if they are hundreds of miles away, and a faceless name.
I am sorry for the trouble, but I have principles, and I am not going to be in a league with someone who can not respect others . It just is not worth it,....my boss would not dare speak to me that way. And this is supposed to be fun,...not work. I wish the rest of you much fun and luck. Thanks and I am sorry but this could have been avoided if people would treat each other with respect whether they are face to face or hundreds of miles away (on the Internet). My decision is final.