I would also like getting a delete notice when someone just deletes a trade offer without accepting or rejecting. Essentally what they are doing is rejecting. We should be able at any time to see the status of the trade offers we have out there. Read, accepted, rejected, deleted, outsourced to india, whatever.
Seriously, though. I received an email response from SOM, saying they will probably add this feature back at some point in time.
It would be nice if they demonstrated their claim to be more responsive and communicative on the boards if they posted an announcement they realized and agreed this is not a privacy issue and stated intentions to provide the feature at some point. Even better if it showed up on some list of planned future changes so we could easily see it is on their agenda.