So it is ok on a baseball forum to research individuals to find out the most embarrassing details
It does not help the discussion to try and twist what people are saying.
Why do people do that?
I am advising that if you do not want people to be able to search your past and find embarrassing details do not use your real name as your screen name. Trying to be helpful and give advice that will help Radagast going forward.
People can protect themselves when in an environment where they might be at risk. Would I say it is wrong to research a person's past and post it. YES. It is something I would never do and would discourage someone from doing. But if you make it possible for someone to do there is always going to be someone who will. Fact of life.
In similar fashion no matter how positive your post is or how helpful you are trying to be there will always be an idiot who will try and twist what you say. That is the nature of the internet. Should it be that way? No. But there will always be those who will do it as gkhd11a just demonstrated.