lanier64 wrote: Man up. If you can't play with the big boys go home.
The "man up" argument gets a little old at times, justifying violence where it doesn't necessarily belong. How many times have I heard little league coaches tell their players to "be a man" when confronted with violence: take it like a man, give it as good as you take it (and we won't even talk about the ultimate sadist -- the high school football coach). How much more human it is (and ultimately humiliating to the opponent) to shake off the gratuitous violence and go about your business. Shall we sharpen up our spikes à la Cobb and take out any number of second basemen because "that's the way the game is played"? Play hard, I agree, push yourself to the limits you didn't even know that you had, but inflicting pain.....is that really what the game is all about?
Bill