chasenally wrote:when this thread wasn't a pissing contest.
I have to say, the "good old days" weren't really better. I avoided the forums in my early SOM days. When I did finally join in, I was attacked by a veteran for a polite post. I'm not "faulting" Geekor here, but we
are talking about the old days and I do have to give evidence. After I made a polite post on the autodraft, Geekor gave this ugly response (no asterisks in original):
short sighted people...can't see past the tip of your nose.
Where the f**k does anyone say they want to get all their picks? no one expects that. Don't break things off to a tangent that no one is even suggesting...
The guys who spend a lot want to keep their advantage in the game. Why change it to make is easier and more fair? Too many damn commuinists on these boards......
http://forum.onlinegames.strat-o-matic.com/community/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=633748&sid=becc905720e73d3f5b2988671d892236&start=10
That post was hostile, contentious, and broke the forum rules of abuse. However,
none of the Vets on that thread--including some on this one--said anything. Even worse, the moderator was also participating on that thread and said nothing. I've seen many other such posts in the "good old days" where veterans said nothing, so they weren't that pure. As to "fixing" today, I suggest someone, maybe a moderator, sets up a thread where we can decide what kind of rules of etiquette we want. Some questions we would have to answer are:
1. What exactly is a "pissing contest" and what differentiates it from normal disagreement?
2. Are we allowed to disagree, critique, criticize, and/ or even tell someone they're wrong?
3. Are sarcasm and humorous jabs allowed, or are they antagonistic and should be avoided?
4. Are expressions of anger allowed or are they just forms of antagonism?
5. What exactly is a "contentious" post and should contentious post be allowed?