Tue Jan 25, 2022 10:56 pm
Agreed Bill, PJ, DVT.
Bury.
Loved reading that, Bill.
Some more humanizing stuff from the man, who was nothing if not passionate, about everything. A simple note to him when we put my beloved Golden Retriever down and I decided no more dogs for me. Many of you may know, he was a Golden aficionado too. I know he was a clinical psych, but it is unusual for someone to have such a keen objective intellect along with the highly tuned emotional IQ.
Re: Sandie
To: Me
From: The Wrong Stuff (The Last Druid)
Date: Thursday, 7/15/2021 10:15pm
I did notice the uncharacteristic typos in your posts tonight.
So sorry for your loss Frank.
But I know that Sandie has simply moved from the living room to the bedroom and that she is as much with you now as ever only without the suffering. Intend before you go to sleep that your dreams bring her to you -and they will. Offer her you gratitude for all that she gave to you - that will nourish her.
I am sure that she had a most fulfilling life and that her spirit is thrilled beyond measure with the experience you co-created with her. Hard for me to imagine a better father than you.
The pain never really goes away, I am still moved to tears by just thinking about any of my dogs. Our first dog, Athena, was a rescue pitbull who got hit by a car after running away twice about a year after we got her from the North Shore Animal league in 1986. I wailed all through a sleepless night when I learned of her fate.
You alone know best how to manage your loss. For me though, life without a constant corporeal canine companion is simply unthinkable.