Sorry to see you get so frustrated Steve,
For the record - the way to point someone to one of your teams is just copy/paste the url from your teams roster page like so:
https://365.strat-o-matic.com/team/1689021This one may be a bit off for your questions since it's built on a funny budget of $114million.
But it can show you how I set generally try to set my bullpens. Sometimes it works well, sometimes not.
I'm also not one of those guys who usually sets their starters for deep pitching runs (if they are really a top starter [over 10mill in ATG games, gut call in annuals games] I may set them to do not pull before F8) so I do hope that my pen will pull some weight.
I generally try to get a High K / Low OBP guy to close for me. Yes they'll get hit around every now and then, but the hope is that they'll be able to come in and shut down a side if the rolls land on them.
I then try to find the cheapest strong L/L and R/R guys I can. I don't think I'm giving away the farm here saying that the $1.1m Kent Tekulve in ATG is one that almost everyone guns for for that R/R spot. I've missed out on him with his draft position as high as 8th before. Barely 3% OBP against righties with a 30% K chance on his card for barely a million. There are others available out there but for one of the the cheapest righty killers he is hard to pass up.
I set the above two in the appropriate RH Specialist / LH Specialist spots with quick pull and Avoid LHB/RHB as appropriate. Make sure you double check these settings as for some reason about 65% of the time I set it, the first save seems to cancel the "Avoid" checkbox.
I then try to fill in two more RPs to fill in the following positions - Set-up and Middle Man. For both I try to avoid someone who is overly balanced in one direction or the other usually hoping to stick to a 2r - 2l range. Not always possible depending on salary cap and who is available but I can usually find someone I like.
For Set-up, I generally look for a cheaper version of my closer for the set-up - High Ks / Low OBP, and if possible (depending on my park) an opposite arm. It won't guarantee a switch to a weaker hitter in late innings but sometimes you get lucky.
Middle Man can become tricky - I generally want this person to have R3 or higher, but a solid pitcher with an R2 may end up here based on salary / availability restrictions. I think an R1 pitcher here is wasted as this person will more than likley come in and HAL will want to pitch them for at least 2 innings.
Another thing is understanding how HAL generally uses these roles:
Closer: Inning: 9+; Leading by 1-3 runs
Setup: Inning: 7-8; Leading by 1-3 runs
LH Specialist: Inning: 7+; Leading or trailing by 1-3 runs or tied; LH batters
RH Specialist: Inning: 7+; Leading or trailing by 1-3 runs or tied; RH batters
Tied & 9th+: Inning: 9+; Tied
Tied & Late: Inning: 7-8; Tied
Behind & Late: Inning: 7+; Trailing by 1-4 runs
Middle Man: Inning: 1-6; Leading or trailing by 1-4 runs or tied
Mopup: Any inning; Leading or trailing by 7+ runs
Closer vs. L: Inning: 8+; Leading by 1-3 runs; LH batters
Closer vs. R: Inning: 8+; Leading by 1-3 runs; RH batters
There may be a perfect situation for him to use your LH Specialist in the 6th. You're facing the 2-3-4 or 3-4-5 batters and they are all lefties, but HAL will still just see that it's the 6th so if you're starter is in a situation where he may be pulled, HAL would look to you're Middle Man first.
I also like to run a 4 *SP rotation in ATG and I use that last cheapy starter spot for the mop-up spot. It helps save my regular bullpen for their appointed duties.
Once again this is only one guys opinion on how to do it, but I find it works more than not. Call it 65-70% if the time. Maybe a little more or I might have already been trying to work something new.
Another thing I have found is to NOT set my team preference for aggressive relief. Will almost always pull your starters earlier than you want. Unless you're running a super reliever team, I'd never set this.
I also almost always set for Maximize closer. I know it's hit or miss. but the few times I didn't I had too many situations where my closer was too tired to be brought in to close and they went with a crappy sub. Almost always costing me the game.